Dan Skili hosts the Gay and Bisexual Men’s Wellness and Support Group on MeetUp – with almost 300 members. Dan writes a little more detail about the groups for our Community Blog, below. “We are celebrating nearly 18 months of our group: Gay & Bi-sexual Men’s Wellness and Support Group on MeetUp – with almost Read more >>

I Want to be Sexy, by Brandon Cook

  All I want is to be the sexiest lad in all the lands.   It’s why my jockstrap collection is growing. It’s why every few months I pick up some weights in an attempt to look less like a twink, only to put them down again in a huffing sweat after a solid five Read more >>

“Tina and I”, by Charlotte Fine

I watched you turn a Scientist into a hyper manic. Apparently you’re more addictive than crack. I used to scowl at the rumours of your chaos in QX Magazine. The police mugshots of who you claimed. I watched documentaries where addicts in rehab would “90 percent” relapse. I had a drug dealer say he was Read more >>

A matter of chemistry. A chemsex snapshot.

By Mario Forgione.     “I wish I was able to say no”, he muttered, while he hesitantly handed his pipe to me, the moment I said I wasn’t in the mood for drugs and that I had no desire to get high. I only wanted to meet him in person to establish if the connection Read more >>

Erections: a view from group work

  Glorious to experience and behold, a good, solid erection for a lot of men forms the basis of their sense of power and manhood.  But what happens when our bodies don’t respond in the way that we want or expect them to? I recently facilitated a workshop on this exact topic to explore the Read more >>

This is your success London; congratulations, you.

  You did this. I hope you know, that you did this. Yes, you. In 2016 and 2017, 56 Dean Street saw a dramatic reduction in new HIV diagnoses; in 2015, we were diagnosing 72 people with HIV each month. And in September 2017… it had dropped to 11 per month. That’s an historic and Read more >>

The É Talon burlesque dancers

É Talon is a new sensual all male burlesque show, celebrating both the masculine and feminine qualities of male artists. Wearing high heels and designer underwear, The Stallions bring their unique style of gay culture to the West End this Monday. Look beyond the talented men in underwear and you will find the hidden message; Read more >>

I met Julia Roberts at Pride.

August Bank Holiday 2007, I was offered E to the bassline of Justin Timberlake’s Sexy Back by a man stacked enough to squeeze me to death with his right forearm, should I want to explore such kink. Instead he was sweet and offered to let me watch him wank off in the cubicles of Manchester Read more >>

Prison ain’t as sexy as it sounds….

By Stephen Morris, London Division lead for ChemSex related crime, Her Majesty’s Prison & Probation Service.   I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been in prison and probation over the last thirty years. I’ve also lost count of the number of times my gay brothers have asked me if I’ve ever seen guy’s Read more >>